Are
you an individual that others can believe in? Belief is a very
strong connection and not one to be taken lightly. It involves
trust, confidence and action. It is a trait that is learned and
practiced to keep it in check. All of us put our trust in someone
or something, therefore it is important that you know you can be
believed in order to be heard. Communication is imperative for
belief.
Effective
communication is essential in business and in everyday life. The most
powerful communicators reach not just our minds, but our hearts. They
win our trust. Are you this type of person? If so, GREAT! If not,
you can be. Anything worth having is going to take some effort on
your part. Are you willing to put forth the effort and energy it
will take to be believed? There are not many feelings to be
experienced in this lifetime over that of being able to win the trust
of others.
A
starting point is going to be belief in yourself. If you do not
believe in yourself, then how will others believe in you? Hundreds
of thousands of people fail to live the life they have always wished
to live. They fail to realize their ambitions and give up on their
big dreams as soon as they encounter the first obstacle. One of the
strongest causes for this attitude is that they do not believe in
themselves. Believing in yourself is all about being sure that you
are going to do whatever you want even if others are against you.
Usually, when you decide to take a big challenge or to do something
that people failed to do you will find that everyone is putting you
down or saying that you will not be able to do it. Been there and
done that too, right?
Under
the pressure of criticism some people start to doubt their own
abilities and eventually give up. The few people who manage to
believe in themselves and who continue moving along the path they've
chosen are the ones who succeed. Surely you know of others that you
have believed in and trusted and now see their successes in life.
What made you believe and trust in them? It is apparent that they
had the ability to convince you that what they were going to do would
happen. In other words, they had the confidence in their abilities
to see their objective through and at the same time take you with
them because of your belief in them as well. You can be just as
convincing in your actions as them, if this is what you want.
You
need to stop thinking that other people's opinions are so important
and start building self-confidence in your own judgment. No one ever
succeeds without being rejected. If people think that you are wrong
or that your efforts will yield no results then just go against them
by either convincing them with your point of view right away or by
waiting until they believe in you by force when they see your
success. How many times has this happened in your life with those you
didn't believe? How many times after seeing their success you had
wished you believed them? Too many times to count, right? Happens
to all of us! The importance is learning from those experiences.
Belief
in God is where ultimate belief begins. If you truly believe you can
do all things through Christ (Phil.
4:13),
then you will be a success and you find that others will start
believing in you as well. Living a Christian life is as true as one
can get on this earth in order to have others put their trust and
dependence in you. People need to see your faith and they need to
see your works too (James
2:17).
You don't want to be dead in your efforts before you ever begin.
Did
you know that even Jesus had a hard time getting others to believe in
Him? His own family didn't believe and this could be your situation
today. This morning we will see what Jesus did to make them believe
so we can follow His example for our lives. It is important that
others believe us if we are going to be effective servants in His
earthly kingdom.
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